Day 8-10: First Few Days in the Schools

I know that I am completely lagging in my blog updates, but basically, here is our day.
5:20 am- WAKE UP
5:40- BREAKFAST
6:00- LEAVE
6:10- DROP OFF ST. PAUL'S GROUP
7:10- ARRIVE AT TRINITY IN TEMA
7:30- JHS CHAPEL SERVICE WITH 4-8 GRADES
8:20- PRIMARY CHAPEL WITH 1-3 GRADES
9:30- NURSERY AND KINDERGARTEN CHAPELS

4 CLASSES THROUGHOUT THE DAY

2:30- LEAVE FOR ST. PAUL'S
4:00- ARRIVE BACK AT THE BAPTIST GUEST HOUSE
6:00- DINNER PREPARED BY ADELINE
7:00- NIGHTLY DEVOTIONS FOLLOWED BY  PLANNING FOR FOLLOWING DAY CHAPELS AND CRAFT SESSIONS
9:00- CONCLUSION TO THE DAY
PARTY!  haha.  This was usually the time that we sat around and played cards, talked or watched youtube videos.
11:00- COLD SHOWERS AND BEDTIME
12:00- ACTUAL BEDTIME

This is all I've got for now because it was super busy and crazy.  This is going to be an AMAZING trip.  I hope to be a more devoted blogger later on!

Day 17: Street Food and Final Chapel

Our group had started the day off a bit sad because we knew today was our last day both in the schools and in Ghana.  I have fallen in love with the students and many of the people that I have met here, but definitely not the weather.  I can't do the sweating ALL day, even while taking a cool shower.  It's terrible.  I don't understand how they do it!
Anyway, our day started with our standard chapel services.  JHS went really well and we had the opportunity to pray with them and take pictures with them.  That was a bit of a challenge to get everyone to participate willingly. :)  Primary chapel was fantastic.  We allowed 5 students in both groups to choose their favorite song and it was awesome to see their excitement!  It was hard at the end to say goodbyes.  I don't feel like I made one particularly close friends, but a bond with many groups of students.  They were so welcoming and loving that it really hit home how much I love the educational field and want to continue to be involved with children and schools.
When we picked up the other group, it was great to see that Malinda was feeling better!  She and I decided to walk the streets a final time for some candies, street food and final mental pictures.  We bought some chicken and rice from a chop bar down the street.  It was all good until I came across a bone that looked a lot like a jaw bone with teeth.... NO.  It was a bit mentally shattering.  Especially because Ivan told us that a lot of people there have dogs, not because they want a pet, but to put in their bellies.  My mind was playing tricks with me, so I was done eating right then!  But it was still a fun experience!
We spent some time walking the streets looking for a water satchet (worst water I've tasted!), Milo cubes (also disgusting!) and FanIce Cream (DELICIOUS).  I loved the ice cream, it tasted like frozen cool whip!  Malinda and I also made our last trip to Global Mamas and got matching skirts!  I am all out of Ghanaian money now, but I got so many goodies for myself and my family.
The last part of the day and trip was filled with prayer, looking back on what we had experienced, giving props to each other and friendship bracelets.  I definitely made some relationships that I will never forget on this trip!
As we packed up the vans to leave, we had to say our final goodbyes to Tyra.  This was hard for everyone, but especially for Thomas.  He and Tyra had really bonded and it was difficult to watch them having to say goodbye.  She definitely touched all of our hearts.  The Ghana airport was IMPOSSIBLE.  It took so long to get through all the lines and the communication was definitely lacking.  It was a blessing when we finally got through it all!!  Onto the longest flight path ever!  WOOHOO!

Cultural Differences ***stolen from Sarah :)

No Two Cultures Are Identical. Here Are Some Things Unique About Ghana!

1. Wave with your palm facing down.

2. They carry items on their head. Apparently that is better for your back than carrying it. I even have seen students carry their chairs from classroom to classroom on their head.

3. The bathroom is called the washroom.

4. You can get tags instead of license plates (they are license plates with red font) that you either have for a month or a year.

5. Never place anything on the floor. Whenever we do they either pick it up for us or tell us to place it on a table or other location. The ground is considered to be filthy no matter where you are.

6. They have a million bulletin boards. You can't look anywhere and not see any of them. And most of them talk about Jesus. One that stood out to me was "You are special. yes you the one reading this."

7. They have preachers who come around with a megaphone to declare the good news.

8. Plastic bags are called polythene bags.

9. Lots of vehicles have stickers on their windows that proclaim a message of some sort, typically relating to God.

10. They have several names, but one of them refers to the day of the week they were born.

11. Americans have watches, they have the time. We are constantly go, go, go, I need to get this done, I have that to go to. They are about building relationships and spending time with others. They always have time for you!

12. In West Africa they have people that will pump the gas for you.

13. People are constantly out walking the streets, even on the interstate.

14. Girls wear earrings so you can tell what gender they are when they all have the same short hair cut. It is uncommon to see people with more than one ear piercing or tattoos.

15. Girls holding girls hands and guys holding guys hands is a norm.

16. They have a policy of patient impatient driving. You are to be kind and let others in, but at the same time you are not to expect others to let you sneak past/ get upset if they don't.

17. They drink from the equivalent of a melted ice pack.

18. They may live in the vendor shop that they work at.

19. When they greet you they say "you are welcome" and we respond "thank you." The best way I can translate that is that they want us to feel like we are at home.

20. I don't know that it is culturally acceptable, but I have seen a couple of trucks overflowing with watermelon on the highway and people lay across the top of them as they drive.

21. Males go to the restroom alongside the road/ on walls surrounding compounds.

22. Females may kiss other females on the cheek.

23. Common saying: "God is good", person one. "All the time," person two. "All the time", person one. "God is good," person two."

23. When asked how are you? The proper response is "We are blessed." When asked how your family/ job/ anything else in life the answer is "We are blessed."

24. Hawking is when people walk the streets and sell different items. There are signs in some places that say "no hawking".

25. They do not like spending time in the sun. Only the British people do that.

26. Akwaba (Uh-k-wah-buh) means you are welcome. Ete sen (Eh-the-ss-N) means how are you. Eye (ay-yay) means I am fine. (These are typically greetings in Twi, their native language.)

27. Oldest person in a group is always seen as a leader. If they have a question that they could ask any of us, they will still ask Ivan or whomever is the head of the group.

28. Sanitation is viewed differently here. Tourist locations are more likely to have soap in the restrooms and toilet paper. That is why you do everything with your right hand, you are suppose to wipe, etc. with left hand.

29. Red red is a very important dish here, it is plantain served with beans. You never ask for red red and plantain, because both become red. The red beans are served with fried plantain, which becomes red.

30. Time spent in doors is only meant for sleeping. Everything else (cooking, socializing, everything)  is done outdoors. That is why if you spend a lot of time inside your house they will assume you are sick.

Day 16: Final Full Day

Wednesday was a sad day for our group because it was the last FULL day at the schools. 

At JHS chapel today, our skit was called "Southern Fried Chicken" which is the name of a fast food place here. The customers came in asking for eternal life. I, as the cashier, asked them how they were going to pay for it. Their answers were good works, smarts, muscles, and money. These were all rejected. Finally someone said they couldn't pay because Jesus had already paid for it. The kids were able to understand it!  

When chapel was over, their SOS, (Superintendent of School) came forward for a presentation. They were so thankful for us being able to be there with them. After many more words of thanks and tears, they presented us with handmade Kente (kent ay) cloth. They are beautiful. 

Instead of having primary and nursery chapels separate, we had them together. Wow! There were not enough seats for all of the kids! The church was so full, It was so awesome to see. 

We had to skip out on our breakfast at breakfast time because we were late for our kindergarten craft time. We got to color the Jesus pictures with them and take lots of pictures. It was difficult today to keep up the energy with them. But they were excited to have us there with them. 

During their break time, we were able to hang out with them. We sat around and talked with them. I showed them pictures of my family. They were very curious about them, my home, America, and the seasons. It was fun to be able to share a part of home with them. 

For lunch: fresh fish! Yes, we did get an entire fried tilapia and we ate it with our fingers. By far, the best fish I've ever eaten! We also had banku, which is a very popular Ghanian dish that is often eaten with soup. It tastes sour, almost like sourdough bread dough. I enjoy it most with okra stew!  

After lunch, we made the Christian fish with the fifth graders. They really enjoyed the fish and were able to Tell us about the meanings of each part. They were glad we came to their classroom on the last day. 

When we got back to the guest house, Kayla, Jordan and I went to Global Mamas to make a few final purchases.  I'm so excited about my recipe book that I bought because it holds many recipes that I have enjoyed here and it's very simple!  In addition to that, it holds some cultural information.

I still wasn't feeling super great today, but at least the fever had gone down a bit.  I ate dinner quickly and decided to go to bed early because I needed to sleep.  I sent a morbid text to Grant saying, "Very ill.  I love you.  Goodnight."  I'm sure that scared him a bit!  It was a little scary being in Africa and really not feeling well because you are just unsure of what you could have come across or picked up along the way.   The group was very helpful.  Jennifer rubbed our feet and Pat gave me a massage for my body aches.  In addition to this, I was tested for malaria.  It turned out negative and eased many concerns.  Although, we discovered that malaria is pretty simple to cure!  Although it has hurt so many, it takes a simple pill to maintain and cure it.  The problem is that it costs GHC 24 which is basically $8 USD.  This is inexpensive to us, but not to everyone in Africa, so they are unable to get the medication they need to be cured.  It's really sad that this is available, but not to all because of such a small cost.  I spread whatever I had with Malinda and so we spent the night being sick together.  Not ideal, but at least we eventually fell asleep!

Day 15: Motion Sickness and Flying Termites

Today was overwhelming in SO many ways.  I was finally no longer sick from the night before with the worst stomach pains I have EVER experienced! WIN.  In addition to this, the group was also able to wake up later and eat a delicious breakfast made by Adeline!  We had spent the day before preparing for a day filled with visits to schools in Anyaa and Madina and a final service at the Lutheran Seminary of Ghana.
We made the trip to Anyaa and were not quite prepared for what we experienced.  Driving up the school, we took roads that had such large divots that the wheels of the van were submerged under water (sewer water) and the houses were not as developed as the places in Accra.  We drove in during snack time and there were 3 or so vendors set up with snacks and drinks for sale for the children.  The school was a long row of classrooms with a tin roof.  We realized then that even the schools in Trinity and St. Paul's that seemed unequipped compared to schools in the US were much more fortunate than those here in Accra.  The playground area was a dirt area with a pile of large rocks.  In addition to that, the church was used as the Nursery and Kindergarten classes.  The moment we arrived, they set out chairs for our group and invited the pastor to sit with us.  He was an extremely passionate and motivating man who continually blessed and thanked us for the work we were doing.  I literally could have sat there listening to him speak all day long.  He was blind, but was lacking nothing.  He was truly emanating love, passion, care and wisdom to our group.  It was a blessing to be around him.  We had some time to spend with the children as our leaders set up the sound system.  They were SO excited to be around us and to be hugged and played with by our group.  Our chapel services went very well with many of the teachers dancing and singing along with the children.  This was the school that Coral, Rachel and Lois were doing mission work, so we had time to spend with them.  Coral spent the rest of the day with our group.  We took a break to get lunch at Chicken  Inn when it started DOWNPOURING.  African rain is absolutely insane and it was stressful for the group to try to get through the traffic both in the car and in the mall.  In addition to that, we had a lot of movement and motion in the car, which led to myself getting motion sick.  That was fun.
On our trip to Madina, we quickly ate and prepared for our next excursion.  Madina was very welcoming and excited for our arrival.  They were practicing their dances for their graduation recital.  The dances were extremely traditional and were amazing to watch how well they were executed!  We followed their practice with our chapel program and they LOVED JOY (as every student seems to! :)) and were very focused during the skits.  Many of our team members really connected with these students and struggled to leave.  We wanted to stay so badly, but were unable.  Next year, we hope to be able to spend more time at both Anyaa and Madina (if another group is able to attend).
The final trip was to the Seminary.  It took us a bit longer at Madina, so we just spend some time looking over the Seminary and the local area.  There are currently 7 seminarians, although many of them had returned home for break.  Most of them came from up North (which could be a huge span of different areas) and were currently there.  We surveyed the building and did our devotion as they prepared the sound system.  Our group was a bit concerned as to why it was so important that we have the speakers working.... We soon found out.  The service started with 4 boys in attendance and 2 Dutch missionary women.  By the time we were done, the children from the village had heard the music and program and the group had grown to 90!  It was amazing to see the benefit of the sound.  Towards the end of the service, the bugs unloaded!  When I mean bugs, I mean FLYING TERMITES.  I didn't even know that these existed and then, there they were- huge and flying up skirts, into our hair and landing on my shoes.  I screamed and screamed and screamed.  The locals laughed and laughed and laughed at us.  I realized that they were attracted to the light and finally had found darkness when the children decided to shine their flashlights on me.  That was unpleasant, to say the least!  I had nightmares about those and probably will for awhile!  We packed up and headed home to rest and prepare for our next and final full day of chapel services and classes.  I wasn't feeling well, so I skipped pizza and just went to bed.  I thought I was going to be fine, until the chills set in.  I was freezing... IN GHANA.  I took a steaming hot shower and still was shivering.... IN GHANA.  It was not a good situation and I knew it.  I took some Tylenol PM to aid with sleeping and the fever.  I finally fell asleep and prayed for recovery because I was scared of what this might mean with all the bacteria and viruses I had come into contact with over the last few weeks!  I just pray for NO MALARIA or nothing too serious.  We have had quite a bit of sickness in our group and I don't want to add to it!

Day 14: Relaxation and Schwarmas

I started the day off with some fresh fruit and sunbathing! We really haven't had a lot of time to spend in the sun because it comes up at 6:00 am and goes down at 6:00 pm. Today was African Union day, so schools were not in session, which meant a free day for us! I spent about 45 minutes on the roof of the Baptist Guest House where we are staying. It was quiet and close to the sun. We could see the planes flying low overhead and I just enjoyed some music time. The leaders had to take a bit of time to prepare for our 3 services tomorrow at Anyaa, Medina and the Lutheran Seminary. As a group, we ate Schwarmas at a place in downtown Accra. They were amazing!  I also tried my first falafel! Loved it! I hope to make both of these Lebanese treats back in the states!  Since we didn't eat out for dinner last night, we had the money to go grab some goodies from the grocery store. I haven't been feeling well because of the lack of veggies, so I stopped at a stand and bought carrots and cucumbers there. I also got Digestives (which are like graham crackers), peanut candy and a chocolate ice bar. It tasted awesome in this grossly humid weather!  We spent much of the afternoon practicing skits and songs for tomorrow while Heather went to see how much money and time it would take to get her hair plated. It is $100 cedis for 2 hours of plating. CRAZY. I took a short cat nap before dinner. Adaline is our house cook and she is AMAZING.  I spent some time talking to her today. She enjoys her job and she used to cook 3 meals a day for the house, but that was overwhelming for her, so now she just cooks breakfast and dinner. Breakfast is $10Gh which is the equivalent of $3.34USD per person. Dinner here is $12Gh which equals $4USD. I am continually surprised by how inexpensive everything is here, especially food. They say that you can get a box of beans and rice from a street vendor for $.50Gh which is basically $0.17USD!!  Her favorite dish to make is okra soup and rice. I tried this both at Southern Fried Chicken and yesterday at the Cape Coast restaurant. I can definitely see why she loves it!!  Our day concluded with playing with Tyra, Adaline's daughter. She is 5 and is the size of an 8 year old. She has the cutest laugh and toothless smile! She showed up in a Supergirl outfit and we played and laughed. She tried to walk up Thomas to flip, that didn't end too well for Thomas.... Oops!!  The day was wonderful and exhausting.  

Day 13/14: Cape Coast Adventure

This weekend was a blast! We took the time to go into the Kakum National Park and go on the rainforest canopy walk there! 

It was crazy walking along the ropes that held boards that held you as you walked about 400 feet in the air. I got a little moton sick and it was SO humid, but completely worth it!  On Saturday night, we spent a long time in the ocean jumping waves and catching some sun. This was definitely a highlight because I love being in the sea much!  But, because Africa has garbage EVERYWHERE, LITERALLY, the water was filled with trash and locating items. That was pretty gross, but it was still amazing. For lunch, we went to Hans Cottage where I got fresh lobster with rice for $8USD. It was incredible!  Our night concluded with "milkshakes" which was really just strawberry milk. Milk here is powdered, so it was nice to have a different kind of milk. The students and I stayed up playing BS and Thumbs which is actually just Spoons minus spoons. It was amazing that our chalets all had air conditioning.... If only our had worked! 😁. Our next morning started with quite a few sick friends. Sarah had to miss out on village church because of hers. The church was in Odeswa and was four stone walls with a tin roof. As we walked in, we heard drums and voices and saw singing and dancing. It was an exciting environment!  We donated our offering to the church to be able to afford electricity. The people were very thankful because an average offering was about 5 cedis which is the equivalent of $1.67 USD. It was very heartwarming to be able to help a group of very poor followers achieve something that they might not have on their own! We also introduced ourselves using our Twi name. I am Afua. As I said that, an older woman was very excited because she is also Afua!  She was so happy and thankful to be there!  As the service concluded, we posed for pictures with the congregation and hugged and shook their hands many times. We loaded up to go when we found that our car was not working.... That was a bummer but it gave us time to talk with the people there and get to know them a bit better. One girl was 17 and was going to school. Her English was pretty good and she was able to translate a bit for is. She went to school in the town with her 3 sisters and brother. She wants to be a math teacher when she grows up. We were able to pick up Sarah and Jennifer to continue onto the Slave Castle in Cape Coast. We grabbed lunch right next door and the Beach Harbor Restaurant. It was well priced and had good food.... Although I'm not convinced it was worth the 2.5 hour wait time. 😁. Malinda and I shared Red Red with chicken which is fried plantains, black eyed peas and spicy red palm oil sauce. YUM!  We also ordered calamari and spring rolls, but they didn't arrive in time. We entered into the huge castle to learn more of the history of the African slave trade. It was incredible intense and very sad. We were told of the stories of how the Anglican Church was holding services right above the holding cell of the men slaves. At one time, there could be up to 1,000 men and 500 women and children in the castle. Between the years 1600 and 1820, between 1.5-2 million people were traded. It was very eye opening and absurd to imagine that actually happening. We also had to stand in the small death cell where those who were acting out of line would be placed without food, water, light and very little air to die. The longest amount of time survived was 4 days. The people were left there until all inside had died, so if there was only one left, they had to stay with the dead bodies. We also saw the governer's quarters, the door of no return and the main quarters. It was incredible. We were really blessed to be able to see so many places over the weekend and spend some time relaxing. Kayla was sick again on the way home, so we were super excited to get home so that we could rest in peace. Later, I also got sick, but recovered by Monday morning. So, life is good!